Akihero wrote:so im not sure what to do now after looking into my clip i think i found the relay and i found a re tractor control box
Unless your mirrors do more than fold, the blue box is all you need. The black box you have pictured is for something else I believe. EDIT: sorry, I got things mixed up. . not the blue box but the black box. The blue box is for the headlights I think.
Akihero wrote:which im pretty positive i do not have wiring in the usdm car for these boxes
You are right, no plugs for box, switch, or mirrors. You're going to have to reuse the connectors from the JDM clip for the mirrors and box. If you have the connector for the switch too, great! (if not, no worries since they are the same connector. . USDM just has less pins) use that but if not, simply add the retract wire which goes to the box.
Here's the diagram I mentioned in my first post.