hey man, if you look over my build on this page i have all the info and pics about my set up. its kinda hard to say exactly what something is gonna do. but on the rear i have prolly about like maybe 15mm of clearence between my coilovers and the wheel. like i think i can fit my finger in between, but its tight. they sit pretty flush imo but i plan on lowering the rear more and rolling somemore on the back so it doesn't rub when its lower. if you come out another 11mm you might need to roll more but i'm sure it can be done. it honestly depends on how much work you want to put into having a good stance. i'm believe it can happen though. if you can run a 25 offset up front i'd prolly do that, but 35 should fit fine too. the 35 is gonna give you more clearence for brakes i would assume. as far as tires go, i wouldn't reccomend doing the same size all around. running worn tires in the rear and new in the front is somehting that people actually strongly advise against with awd cars. thats why you usually don't replace 1 or 2 tires at a time. usually it should be a set. i would prolly run like 255s in the rear and 235's up front. check out these two things and hopefully they can help you figure it out.
my build
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tire size calculator. (helps you set up two different tire sizes to compare front and rear)
http://www.rimsntires.com/specs.jsp